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Gratitude in the Face of Chronic Illness

Gratitude in the Face of Chronic Illness

Recently I have joined in on the #ostoMYlove June challenge of June’s Self-love month. Already we are now on Day 5 and I am getting an enormous amount of benefit out of this challenge. The challenge has brought home and has got me thinking about the act of gratitude and how grateful I am for so many people and the circumstances in my life. There is an amazing quote by Melody Beattie that says:

"Gratitude turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion into clarity...it makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow." Melody Beattie

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Night bag Connectors are like ‘GOLD DUST’ in Hospital

Night bag Connectors are like ‘GOLD DUST’ in Hospital

I feel I need to write a post about how important “CONNECTORS” are for night drainage system.

So briefly what is a connector? Well as mentioned in previous posts, urostmates can have an option to connect up to a night drainage system at night time. This allows for a straight through sleep and to ensure that there is no back-flow to the kidneys. Not every urostomate uses a night bag but personally, I do and they help me not to worry about getting up in the night to empty Squirt. Generally, different manufacturers of the urostomy bag and night bag can be connected by the universal connector. Some night bags can attach without a connector but they may fall off when you move around. Connectors are amazing little things!!

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Goodbye to Sleeping on my Belly and Care-Free Sleep!!!!

Goodbye to Sleeping on my Belly and Care-Free Sleep!!!!

It has been another exhausting day of surviving! My bed is calling...I've had an Epsom salt bath, comfy, pyjamas are on and I'm fantasising about spreading out on my belly all snuggled up in my bed...

That is until I remember about my 2 boys... Bob (my Ileostomy) and Squirt (my Urostomy) and soon that bubble is swiftly burst. It has been 7 years now since I have slept flat out on my tummy and am able to enjoy a straight nights sleep. I have, to be honest, that out of everything I have had to adjust with since my organs failing in 2008 I think after all these years I still yearn for a straight through deep, care-free sleep.

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Urostomy Awareness

Urostomy Awareness

Over the last few years, something magnificent has happened!

There has been a lot of coverage in the media lately about ‘Ostomy’s.’ Ostomates are people sharing their stories and fabulous pictures and proudly flashing their stoma bags. This warms my heart so much to know that the stigma surrounding stoma bags and Ostomy surgery is finally being addressed and changing the public’s perspective about stomas for the better; spreading a message of hope and acceptance to be proud of your stoma bags and that you can still live an amazing, happy life with one!

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Why it is Important to NAME your stomas?

Why it is Important to NAME your stomas?

I usually get the same reaction when I tell people about ‘Bob’ (my ileostomy) and ‘Squirt’ (my urostomy). That look of blankness then laughter. However, there is a method to the madness for naming them.

First thing is first...why should we name our stomas?

Well I encourage every new ostomate that I meet to name their stoma’s. We name pets...cars...nicknames for partners. So why not something that is part of us?

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Introducing Bob and Squirt!

Introducing Bob and Squirt!

Welcome everybody to rocking2stomas and we have lift off....!! 

I cannot explain how much this means to me to share my story and finally achieve my dream after years and years of talking about it.

Over the last 9 years, I feel I have a degree, masters and PhD in dealing with my illness and appliances that have kept me alive! If just one person identifies….then I have done my job! I have found that only another person who lives with a stoma can fully understand the trials and tribulations we face on a daily basis. 

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